Many men like myself find this preoccupation with those over 21 having sex with those under 18 -- okay, pubescent teenagers -- over the top. To have sex with a beautiful woman at 14 or 15 would've been like a trip to heaven for us. Yet, we view this impropriety as one of the most heinous crimes imaginable despite that it was totally consensual. Sure, they're young and immature, but they are totally in control of faculties. I can remember at 18, 14 year-olds seducing my buddies but if they were caught, they not the girl would've gone to jail. There's something wrong with this picture.